People individuals are Willing to know how God will lead you to your spouse, meeting your spouse base on God’s will is paramount to a healthy marriage and progress.
People has made wrong choices in marriage and that has destroyed their visions, dreams and expectations in life. You may be wondering if God really lead people to their spouse base on his will, the answer is yes. Scripture said in Jeremiah 29:11 “For I Know the thoughts I think towards you saith the Lord, thought of peace and not of evil, to give you an expected end”. This scripture show that God can lead you to your spouse and God’s marrying God’s will brings peace and not evil.
Most people miss out to God’s leading to meet their spouses because they don’t know how God can lead them to meet their spouses, they assume it the wrong way. The Lord can use different ways to lead a person to their future mate. Usually, He does not use the same storyline for every couple. That is why you need to understand ways and way God leads his people, sometimes God can lead you to your spouse in ways you don’t even like, or in ways you don’t imagine. Scripture said in Isaiah 55:8-9 says, “‘For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,’ declares the Lord.’ As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.”
We are going to list possible ways in which God leads people to their spouse, and from there you would be sensitive to God’s leading for your life.

Ways God Lead You To Your Spouse

God can lead you to your spouse through various ways, and bellow are some ways God lead people to their spouse.

1. Through Prayers: One of the ways God lead people to their spouse is in the place of prayers, this remains the basic ways God uses to show People their spouse. God said in the scripture “Call upon me and I will answer you, I will show you great and mighty things which thou knows not”. When you pray for God to lead you to your spouse, you are telling God got depend and rely On Him, God will definitely answer your prayers. God gave us assurance of him helping us when we call upon him in prayer. Even Jesus thought his disciple in Matthew 7:7 “ask and it shall be given unto you”. When Abraham sent his servant to go and look for wife for Isaac, the servant prayed ( Genesis 24:12) and God led him to Rebekah. God will lead you to your spouse when you pray.
2. Active in Your Assignment : one of the ways God lead you to your spouse is when you are active doing your assignment God commanded you to do, I have meet couple of people who met their spouse why in the mission field doing the Lords work. Adam in Genesis meet his wife Eve why he was on his assignment in the garden of Eden, As he was in his assistant, God saw that it is not good for a man to be alone, God brought his wife to him. When you are busy in your assignment, God will lead you to your spouse because he know you need them.
3. Through The Scripture: God can lead you to your spouse by giving your scriptural reference of His word. And that scriptures God would specifically give you would guide you in your choice you would make. This is one of the best ways God can use to direct you to your spouse.
4. Through Friendship : One of the ways God lead people to their spouse is through friendship, one thing you need to know is that friendship is built, It even better and advisable to start marriage from friendship, through friendship both party would understand each other and know their strength and weaknesses. In many cases, the Lord allows future couples to start as good friends without attraction at all. It allows them to be real with each other since they have no reason to impress anyone. God can lead you to one of your friends as spouse, that is why you have to be a good friend to everyone.
5. Through close friends and family : God may not lead you to your friends as your spouse but God can lead you to your spouse through your friends and family. Issac meet Rebekah through his father servant. God can make people to be access point in which we can meet our spouse. your friend’s friend may be where God would lead you to, so you need to be conscious in the spirit.
6. Through Common Interests : God may also use your passion, hobby, or talent to lead you to your spouse, there are many spouses who met their life partner through this way, some couples have started with hanging out for the sake of Ministry, music, art, or adventure. Books, pets, or sports and latter end up in marriage.
7. Through Visions and Dreams : God has led people to their spouse through visions and dreams, some people where on their ways to chose the wrong spouse but God through the agency of Vision and dreams directed them to his will for them in marriage.
8. Through The Audible Voice of God: God can lead you to your spouse through his audible voice where he would speak to you specifically about your spouse. There are many couples God has directed through this ways. This are ways in which God lead people to their spouse, after reading this article you can start by praying to God to lead you to your spouse and watch God lead you. When you call he answers.

Onyeka Jesusboy
(Tabernacle Channel Author & Editor)